So living in SoCal, the OSCARS are a pretty big deal. The
front page of the LA times talks about every category. There are Oscar parties,
and pools. People cancel family obligations to watch (not me but others). Well
this year, Best Movie went to “Argo” – the Ben Affleck movie about a CIA agent
named Tony Mendez who amazingly got the trapped American’s out of revolutionary
Tehran.
What was under-appreciated, was that best supporting staff
went to Chandra Miller Fienen, my big sister, for the same Tony Mendez role in our journey. On Feb 21st she flew into Burbank and declared, “I’m Tony
Mendez and I’m here to get you out of the country.”
Chandra did all the little , big, huge, and behind the scenes
things to get the four Milbino’s out of the country. (PS for those that don’t
know we’re expecting Milbino #2 in September, praise GOD!) There’s a line from
the movie “Listen to me and we’ll do this. Don’t listen and Boom! You’re dead.”
This was GO-TIME for us.
She helped pack the last box to ship. She cleaned out the
last of the condo on Sunday morning. Did some beauty touch-ups, took Geneva to
the park, cleaned out our temporary fridge, made Geneva snacks, made Emi laugh
and tear up from her loving care. So not
only did she receive best supporting cast- she definitely won BEST PANK –
Professional Aunt No Kids. There’s
actually a lot more that she did but like Oscar speeches we don’t want to get
the band playing us off the stage.
On our last night in Pasadena, my brother-in-law Mike
Fienen, showed up to take one last pull of state-side uncle duty. We had a great dinner in Pasadena with Dad
Hibino, and had breakfast the next day.
We love you both, but thank you Chandra for your award-winning performance!
We’re out of the country!!!!
Donald (aka Chandra, aka Tony Mendez) definitely deserves best supporting sister in the final push. I think I nailed it when I told her she was your Tony Mendez! As bittersweet as it was (for her and all of us), I'm glad she was there to get you out and onto the next step of your journey. We miss you immensely, but are so very proud of you. Hugs to Emi, G and baby "Omi" (as in Oh-mi, Oh-my, I think I'm gonna die? - Great Big Sea?)
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